This is the truth i have learned from meeting you.

Humans are infatuated with love, they love to love. You could say that is all we are placed in this earth to do. To build a passion, that thing that makes us wake up every morning, and lets us keep going late nights and bad days. But it should never be another person — this excluding children.

Anyways back to this idea of love or passion whatever word you wanna use to describe feelings of attachment. It is tangible. Why because everyone falls in love once and gets their heart broken once. Having the ability to fall in love again indicates that it is something we can learn to do again. Yeah, it will take a while to move on from whoever you thought was the one, your soulmate. So is it really special?

Because when you are in love you look back and believe that you were meant to meet this person your whole life right. That meeting them was the reason all your life choices have led to. But what if it fails or rather when it fails. Forcing us to move on and find someone else we tell ourselves well that was meant to happen; “I was not meant to be with that person, they were meant to break my heart.”

See this is not our fault, really it is the society we have grown up in. Every, romance always makes sure to highlight the way to individuals meet. Makes us believe that things are special that coincidences are a sign of the universe. Yet, in the words of a good friend of mine “it’s not that deep bro.” Even if you might feel like the universe is trying to tell you something, tell you that this person is the one, it is not or it could be for a while until they are not.

For me it has been but a mean joke. Like a kid who keeps tapping your shoulder and then pretending it wasn’t them.

So here is their truth not mine. Love is mean, and ruthless, and incredible but also the best deception. Everyone can fall in love again if they try hard enough, and those who easily fall for others will live a life of pain and disappointment until they either find someone or they give up, because they have lost who they were searching.

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